– Arnhem – Netherlands – In the district of Gelderland a child-judge proudly tells she takes care of a foster child. It’s a documentary. A film crew is allowed to see some parts of her hidden work. That’s better for children she tells. We have to add: although there hasn’t been scientific or reasonable proof for the need of this secrecy. Youtube and Google will lead you to the documentary.
The judge, Mrs. mr Weijers van der Marck, turns out not to have any hesitation to cut contacts between children and their fathers. Even when it turns out mothers have an alibi for allegations because they prepare departure to a foreign country. Even when she can conclude herself a mother has deceived her by assuring her that she wasn’t preparing an emigration with her children. We as law-activists have all the written facts. This judge even cuts contacts between a father and his children, although the judge not even knows were the children are. The mother isn’t in court but abroad at the moment the judge does her investigation and rules her rule.
Yes. Fathers even get a civil order that they should stop having every kind of contact with their children. Even when they are not even charged with any wrong doing. Nowadays there is no way for fathers not to pay for their children, and that’s OK, of course. But on the other hand judges deny to implement the Dutch laws. The law says that it’s default that mother and father share their parental duties and “rights” likewise.
International organizations have confronted the Netherlands with a long existing illegal habit to use real “secret courts” for some subjects. In dutch: achter gesloten deuren. For example fiscal affairs and affairs about family and child matters. This is one of the reasons the “horror justice” could be kept secret for such a long time. Journalists, Quality Auditors, interested family and friends, they are not allowed to get the questions to the judge that parties in a procedure make. They are not allowed to see or hear the process of analyzing and weighing “facts” that the judge leads to his (very often her) final ruling. It’s nearly impossible for them to get the result from the legal process. Only procedure-results that have big attention in society are anonymized and publicized for a broader audience.
We would be very glad to have made some mistakes (cynical). We would be even more glad to correct them.
Without any parliamentary or civil control it’s allowed to judges to take children away from parents with manipulated, imaginary “proof of misconduct”. One unproven source (e.g. a complaining mother) is enough to hold away children from a father. For several years or even a complete childhood!
It turns out that judges even start to take care for children they “stole from parents” first. They become foster parents for children they steal themselves. Please convince us that this isn’t truth. This is exactly the same that happened to the children of the murdered opposition of the junta in Argentina under dictator Videla. People within the government and administration showed their “humanity” by taking care of children with “incapable parents”. Bureaucratic for … murdered. That they had their part in guilt for murdering fathers (and mothers!) they didn’t dare to tell. It resembles the illegal trade in Ethiopia in stolen children that were adopted in the West. A lot of people and organizations made nice profits by real selling of stolen children. At the end of the line some innocent (?!) people that wanted to care for those children became foster parents. African governments are trying to repatriate some of these stolen children.
Please, start with some fact finding. We know … our judges simply deny. Even written! Even in front of gathered journalists. They did the same after the Second World War. They denied and we should have trust in them. We liked to have. We liked to trust in a fairy tail of better people. Nobody can show what correctional actions were undertaken against nazified judges and their products during the German Occupation of the Netherlands. We have to assume … nearly nothing has been done to undo juridical wrong doing. A very despicable argument was used. Jewish judges were often overrepresented in the total population of judges. It had been a Jewish judge in the highest Dutch court that had been removed by the Germans … even after remarkable collaboration between him and the Germans. Afterwards several lower ranked Jewish judges were removed and brought to several concentration camps. Lots of them finally killed. The Non-Jewish majority in the legal system that was left after the war, seemed to misuse the argument of Jewish sacrifices. The “system” had made it’s sacrifices and focus should be on the future. History was history. Let’s not bother with cleaning up and removing “wrong” judges. This kind of reasoning is exactly the same of convicting and disqualifying fathers with their own sacrifices and “punishments”. Don’t talk about children’s rights and fathers role in it. It should be clear that there are fathers killing their children. Did the reader compare that figure to the number of killed children by mothers? He would be astonished.
A standard way of behaving of the Youth Care and Juridical System is: blaming fathers for the punishments they get from the system itself. Contact with children is lessened or even cut of, fathers get feeling insecure and depressive (who wouldn’t). Depressive might according to “professionals” lead to suicide. Fathers sometimes get more angry and frustrated. Depression, anger, frustration … really is suspected to lead to homicide and suicide. So … take away the children completely. This is really standard in the Netherlands. Simply ask fathers to react on internet-messages. And simply ask our editors and you will be provided by tens … even by hundreds of cases. Somebody who writes the above and rereads, will be questioning his own mental well being. This can’t be truth. But it is.
The normal habit in family tragedies like the one of Julian, Ruben and Jeroen, would have been: blame the father! Case closed. To many people have heard and seen what really happened in this case. For to many people it’s clear … the perpetrator … plays victim.
Stop this play.
How many proofs do we have to suffer … to convince that judges really can’t control themselves?
A system that helps making false allegations about fathers being:
– mistreating their children
– sexual abusing children and partners
– stalking their ex-partners (when they have to get from and bring their children to the mother)
… being suspected of having suicidal thoughts …
is a real criminal system.
It’s really driving fathers into suicide. A system that makes it’s own truth.
Murdering fathers and letting them dig their own graves first.
A system that’s there for it’s own sake. Even assuring criminal income and profit to many people and organizations.
Not for the sake of children.
Not for the sake of fathers.
Not for the sake of family and society in general.
Sometimes perpetrators get names. As victims do. Sometimes they are remembered for ever and around the world. Sometimes they change roles after better reading and rereading. In this case mother Iris van der Schuit asked for sympathy as a mother in deep grief. She doesn’t mention the killed father, she doesn’t mention his family. She was only occupied with having to have her children as exclusive possession with not having to share them with her ex-partner, the father of Ruben en Julian van der Schuit. Pure selfishness. Now she has nothing. We don’t agree to this deed of Jeroen Denis. But we can understand his desperation. Sometimes the perpetrator is victim and the victim … might be the real perpetrator.
How many more avoidable family tragedies we can stand ?
Please Dutch Government
Please Dutch Parliament
Please European Parliament
Please United Nations
… do something.